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Love Is a Verb — On the mechanics of human connection
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Men Aren't From Mars
— 15 Nov 2025
Men and women engage in identical behaviours—complaining, offering solutions, needing validation, resisting criticism. The difference isn’t biological, it’s interpretive. We cast the same behaviour as reasonable for one gender and unreasonable for the other. Gray’s book is a perfect case study: emotionally troubled men are normalised while women’s ordinary needs are pathologised. - [marginalium] Love is about betterment — 24 Jun 2025
- [marginalium] Romantic Friendships — 24 Jun 2025
- [marginalium] Singleness and the Pandemic Dating Recession — 1 Mar 2025
- [marginalium] The neuroscience of heartbreak — 27 Nov 2024
- [marginalium] The Myth Of The Loneliness Epidemic — 27 Nov 2024
- [marginalium] The Horizon Of Desire — 11 Oct 2024
- [marginalium] A touching suicide pact? — 10 Aug 2024
- [marginalium] On Turing's 1952 ChatGPT — 21 Jul 2024
- [marginalium] One Friend In One Month — 19 Jul 2024
- [marginalium] The adoption paradox — 12 Jul 2024
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[article]
Active listening is misleading
— 11 Jan 2024
Active listening isn’t about ticking boxes in conversation; it’s about diving into emotions to transform surface-level chit-chat into deep, collaborative dialogue. Forget models, focus on feelings. - [marginalium] Why Do We Listen to Sad Songs — 1 Sep 2023
- [marginalium] How zoom changes conversation — 2 Aug 2023
- [marginalium] The reassuring fantasy of the baby advice industry — 25 Apr 2023