bettermentnoun
making or becoming better
ideologynoun
patterns or rituals of thought, feeling, and action
Most of what you believe, you didn’t choose. Patterns of thought, feeling, and action, given to you by the world around you—graceful solutions to an impossibly complex world, but not yours. I spent fifteen years—military, Cambridge, clinical practice—looking for the instruction manual for this device in our head. It doesn’t exist. But the patterns are visible, once you know where to look. If you don’t do the thinking, the thinking will be done for you.
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[article] Useful Men — 4 Apr 2026
It’s true that the ‘pathways’ to manhood are closing. I don’t think it’s a crisis of masculinity though. It’s a crisis of no more excuses for incompetent. We’re trying to find the meaning of manhood when what we actually need are new skills. Men just need to be useful.
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